Get Grief-Informed for Youth in Foster Care

Whether a death or non-death loss, most youth in foster care are grieving. We know that grief is a natural and normal response to loss, and how we support youth in foster care can be life-changing.

Make a commitment to better serve youth in foster care who are grieving. Learn what it means to be grief-informed, and put that understanding into action.

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What does it mean to be grief-informed?

The majority of child welfare professionals are trauma-informed; however, most are not grief-informed. It is critical that the child welfare community be aware of grief-informed best practices and how to best support youth in foster care who are grieving.

Below are some grief-informed resources for child welfare professionals and continuing education opportunities for professionals which offer foundational knowledge on grief-informed best practices.

Get Grief-Informed: Loss, Grief, & Youth in Foster Care

The Bill of Rights for Youth in Foster Care Who are Grieving

Tips for Supporting Youth in Foster Care Who are Grieving

Becoming Grief-Informed: A Call to Action

Becoming Grief-Informed: Foundations of Grief Education
An online asynchronous course teaching the fundamentals of grief education

Grief Education Webinars
Online trainings that provide professionals with grief education on specialized loss and grief topics

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What to say instead

Language Matters

The language we use to talk about youth in foster care shapes the way we perceive and support them. Youth in foster care can feel supported or disregarded based on how people respond to them, the words they use, and the questions they ask. When speaking with youth about loss, grief, and other sensitive topics, it’s important that we use language that is not only compassionate but also demonstrates our investment in respecting the dignity and worth of all youth.

What to Say Instead

Words Matter: Hurtful and Helpful Language

Get grief informed for youth

Resources for Youth in Foster Care

Youth in foster care often report that their experiences of loss and grief go unacknowledged by the adults in their lives. We can change this narrative by not only supporting youth by learning grief-informed best practices but also by sharing resources with youth that promote personal agency and empowerment. Below are some grief-informed resources inspired by and written for youth in foster care.

Survive/Thrive Journal (English and Spanish)

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Bill of Rights for Youth in Foster Care

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Tip Sheet: Tips for Youth Who are Grieving

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Living in an Inspired World: Voices & Visions of Youth in Foster Care

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Grief Out Loud podcast

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GGI Social Media

Share with Others

Share what it means to be grief-informed and raise awareness to the this critical issue.

Share on Social Media

Download these images and share to your social media channels. Make sure to use #GetGriefInformed #UnderstandGrief and tag us @thedougycenter

Acknowledge Grief

Trauma-Informed Does Not Equal Grief-Informed

Mind Your Language

Missing Equals Grieving

How We Support Youth in Foster Care

Sample Text: We're joining @thedougycenter in the movement to Get Grief-Informed in support of youth in foster care. Find out more and see what you can do at www.dougy.org/GetGrief-Informed #GetGriefInformed #UnderstandGrief

The L.Y.G.H.T. Program

"L.Y.G.H.T. gives me the time and space to speak openly and safely, without being judged about what I’ve been through or what I have lost throughout the years. I feel like I can say anything...It is a place I can talk openly without me ever feeling not listened to. I feel safe." - L.Y.G.H.T. youth participant

The Listening and Led by Youth in Foster Care: Grief, Hope, & Transitions (L.Y.G.H.T.) program is an evidence-based, trauma-informed peer grief support intervention for youth in foster care. L.Y.G.H.T. provides a safe space for youth in foster care to listen, talk, and offer support to one another as they cope with missing family, friends, and other important people, as well as other death and no-death losses in their lives.

Randomized Control Trial Findings

Academic Journal Articles

National Newsletters

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