Grieving The Death Of A Child - Susie and Nick Shaw’s Story

When Susie and Nick Shaw’s nine-year-old son William died in a skiing accident, their world shifted permanently. In the six years since that day, they've found ways to carry their grief and stay connected to William while continuing to honor the boy who inspired so much good in their lives and in their community.

In this deeply moving conversation, Susie and Nick reflect on William’s life—his empathy, his humor, and the motto he created for himself the year before he died: “Be Yourself.” A simple but powerful phrase that inspired their nonprofit, William’s Be Yourself Challenge.

Together, we discuss:

• Navigating grief as individuals and as a couple

• The day William died and what they’ve come to understand about control, safety, and loss

• Supporting their son Kai in grieving for his brother

• Raising Bodhi, their child who was born after William’s death

• Creating family rituals, including monthly taco nights and birthday celebrations

• Returning to Big Sky, Montana to visit the spot where William died and reclaim their love of skiing

• Their new project, The Greenhouse, a house for families who are grieving to take a break from daily life

Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of child death, trauma, and detailed descriptions of the day William died.

Whether you’re a parent or a caregiver who's grieving, a supporter of one, or someone walking alongside a family coping with heartbreaking grief, this conversation highlights the power of honesty, connection, and intentional grief work.

More from Susie & Nick:

• Susie's writing: Dear William Substack

• Susie on IG: @bereavementmom

• Nick's book: My Teacher, My Son

• Learn more: WilliamsBeYourselfChallenge.org

• Donate or get involved with The Greenhouse Project: WBYCgiving.org