Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

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What if my kids don’t know that their person has been diagnosed with an illness that will significantly shorten their life? Can they still attend?

Yes. Often adults find it difficult to find the words to start these challenging conversations with their children. Talking with the other adults in the peer support group and the Pathways Group Coordinators can bring some ease to these tough conversations. Contact a Pathways Coordinator at 503-775-5683 or pathways@dougy.org for more information.

When is the right time for our family to join a Pathways group?

Many of our families access support for months or even years. While it can be hard to know when to join, most families tell us they wish they had joined sooner. If you or your family member has been diagnosed with an advanced serious illness — including late-stage cancer, ALS, or advanced neurological disease, among others — and have a prognosis of three or more months, Pathways offers support for you and your family. Having support earlier on the path can help you and your children feel less alone — even as your family member might continue to seek treatments, medical care, and maintain hope.

Do we have to wait long before we can attend a Pathways group?

The Pathways Coordinator will discuss the group with you and send forms to complete prior to attending the group. Once the forms are received by the coordinator, your family can participate in the next Pathways group.

What do you offer for a young adult who has a family member living with an advanced serious illness?

A Pathways young adult support group is not available at this time. Young adults who have a family member living with an advanced serious illness are invited to attend the adult caregiver group. Contact the Pathways Coordinator at 503-775-5683 or pathways@dougy.org to determine if Pathways could be a possible support for you.